đ” Blog #10: Whatâs Earnest Money â and When Do I Get It Back?
- Alyssa Buttels

- Nov 2, 2025
- 2 min read
So youâve found the one.Youâre ready to make an offer, sign your name, and maybe even start Pinteresting living room ideas (weâve all done it đ ).
Then your agent â thatâs me! â mentions something called earnest money.Youâre like⊠âWait, what exactly is that?â
Totally fair question. Letâs break it down in plain English. đ
đĄ What Is Earnest Money?
Earnest money is basically your good faith deposit.It shows the seller youâre serious about buying their home.
Think of it as hitting âreserveâ on a big purchase â it takes the home off the market while we finish inspections, appraisals, and paperwork.
The amount can vary, but itâs typically 1â3% of the purchase price.So for a $300,000 home, your earnest money might be around $3,000â$9,000.
đŠ Where Does That Money Go?
It doesnât go to the seller right away â and it doesnât disappear.Your earnest money is held safely in an escrow account (usually with the title company or the sellerâs brokerage).
Then, when you close, that money gets applied toward your total costs â either your down payment or closing costs. So itâs not extra money youâre losing; itâs just paid earlier in the process.
âïž When Can I Get It Back?
Hereâs the part everyone asks: âDo I get my earnest money back if the deal falls through?â
The answer is â usually, yes.You can typically get it back if you cancel the contract for a valid reason thatâs protected under your contingencies, like:
The inspection reveals major issues and you decide not to move forward.
The appraisal comes in low and the seller wonât adjust.
Your financing falls through (as long as you were working in good faith).
Thatâs why having an experienced Realtor matters â I make sure all those protections are clearly written into your contract before we even submit it.
đ« When You Might Not Get It Back
If you back out of a deal for a reason not covered by contingencies â like simply changing your mind â the seller may be entitled to keep the earnest money as compensation for taking their home off the market.
Donât worry â Iâll make sure you understand every deadline and condition so your money stays protected.
đŹ My Go-Getter Tip
Always get a receipt for your earnest money deposit and keep a copy of your signed contract.And never hand it directly to a seller â it should always go through an official title company or brokerage account.
Thatâs how we keep everything transparent, traceable, and 100% safe.
â€ïž The Bottom Line
Earnest money isnât a âfeeâ â itâs a promise.It shows youâre serious, gives your offer strength, and later counts toward your home purchase.
Handled correctly, itâs a win-win for everyone â and Iâll walk you through it every time so you always know where your money is and what itâs doing.
đ Letâs Get You Ready to Make Your Move
Buying a home should feel exciting, not confusing.Iâll help you understand each step â from earnest money to closing day â so you can focus on what really matters: finding the home that feels like you.
đ Call or text me at 331-980-0461đ§ Email: RealtorAlyssaB@gmail.com
Letâs start your journey to homeownership â the smart, stress-free way. đĄ
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